Exciting, challenging, so much fun!

The mid-term assessments are over. I enjoyed meeting students I don't usually teach. It feels like overnight I have become acquainted with double the number of students I used to know. Isn't that wonderful?

I am having a satisfying day this Friday staying home and catching up on a few house chores.

My writing project is always on my mind. Regardless, I need to always priortize. Remember the story of The Big Rocks of Time.

In case you're wondering, it hasn't been all work. I have also been having my share of recreation: reading, watching movies, eating out and doing many other things with my significant other.

We recently went to a neighboring city to see a charity basketball game between some US basketball professional players and a home team. It was as unconventional as it was hilarious! The turnout was unprecedented and every age group was represented. We were hugely entertained as we watched real game spiced with comic interludes. It was such fun!

I went to the mall yesterday from campus. I had an absolutely exciting time window shopping and really shopping. The added bonus to my amazing shopping experience was running into some of the students I had got to know this week when I invigilated their mid-term examinations. 

Being at the top of my game, means putting in quality time and it is a challenge I am glad to take on. I enjoy doing what I do
and have the most supportive partner anyone could have. He is such a blessing to me! I am also very thankful for my colleagues and students. They are amazing!

Here are some photos I'd like to share with you.

Many blessings to you!

Ciao






A New Season

Change is a continuous process. Seasons change literally and figuratively. It is a good trait to be a champion of change. Most of us fear change because we actually have a fear of the unknown, not the concept itself. When we develop a positive mindset towards change, we will begin to be excited about change.

So, here we are: a new month, the beginning of another season! Summer is gone and autumn (fall) is here. Yay!
If you have been reading my blogs, I guess you already know that this is my favorite season. I like summer, spring and winter but fall has a special appeal.

It is that time of year when:
Trees glow and look like burning trees along the streets.
Maple Leaves take on many shades of beautiful, bright colors.
And the weather is neither hot nor cold - just the right balance.
Thanksgiving celebrations....
And so much more!

This post made me laugh: http://elitedaily.com/life/culture/20-reasons-we-are-looking-forward-to-the-fall/

Since completing my Federal Government of Canada assignment exactly a month ago, my life has taken a very interesting turn! I loved the work I did in the Public Service. And I absolutely love what I have been doing since then. It is amazing to be doing what I love to do! So thankful to God for the privilege to use the talents He has given me. #mycalling

In the last couple of weeks, it has been such a pleasure to interact with one of the most amazing group of people I have ever met in all the countries I have lived and places I have worked - both young and regular adults! I have always striven to be thankful whether the sky is gray or blue; yet I have to say that they are such a blessing!

I haven't posted on this website in a long time. My apologies, dear readers. It's same classic excuse: busy, busy but I take responsibility for slacking a bit. I have for years taught undergraduate students about setting SMART goals. In order to manage my time well, it is pertinent that I set SMART goals which take career(s), family, leisure, social media/networking and so on into account. It is a given and I would say that I am doing well
but there's always room for improvement.

Change. Progress. Improvement. Excellence.

Happy Autumn/Fall!

:)

Being real in our real world



I like reading about Will and Kate (and more recently, Harry and Meghan). That they are passionate about humanitarianism and conservation of wildlife in Africa is a huge plus:  it makes me like these royal couples even more.

I am also interested in reading about happenings around the globe. International news is full of happenings around the world where people face all kinds of oppression and discrimination: racial, religious, tribal, gender, class, and on and on. It is offensive and reprehensible, to say the least. While these situations leave us with a feeling of empathy for those inflicted, we must realize that the perpetrators are actually people who are very unhappy with themselves and are in bondage of diverse kinds. Take a look whenever the opportunity arises.

I find myself pondering the following questions and wondering what your take on them are: 
How do you feel when you see the wicked 'prospering'?
How do you feel when you see injustice around you; real, not enacted in a movie?How do you feel when you are discriminated against in obvious and/or subtle ways?How do you feel when you see politicians abusing their offices? 
How do you feel when you see, read or hear about these things?

Ever been at the receiving end? I think the idiom 'Only the wearer knows where the shoe pinches' is only partly applicable here. You don't have to be a victim to know what is morally wrong or right. No one can sit on a fence. There is no fence anyway.
What drives a man who practises female subjugation?
What drives a racist?
Look. See. It is glaring.
This isn't a rant. I am just being real in a real world.

On another subject: how many books have you read this summer?
Reading is a most effective teacher.
Are you engaged in a book or Bible challenge for the year? How good is it going?
Don't stop, keep moving!
And as much as lies within you, brighten the corner where you are.  Little drops of water make a mighty ocean.
Ciao!


(updated 2018)

The Versatility of this Catalyst

Catalysts are by nature volatile. They are like winds of change and can blow in diverse, sometimes surprising directions. Since the release of E. L. James' Fifty Shades Trilogy, the buzz around the books has not significantly declined. Fans and foes have continued to express their thoughts since the first installment of this erotic romance series, 'Fifty Shades of Grey' came out in 2011. Now it is being adapted into a movie due for release summer 2014.

So, how has the 'Fifty Shades of Grey' fared in the face of all the criticisms from literary and academic experts? I would say that it has remained unaffected. The large following it has garnered has kept it at the top of the bestseller list.

One thing that has caught my attention in all the excitement is the emergence of several other similar titles ranging from Fifty Shades of Green/White/Vegetables to Fifty Shades of Wine.

What's there not to like?

I would like to think that with the preponderance of similar titles all over the place, the Fifty Shades Trilogy has inspired some writers to be more productive.

Perhaps too, it has motivated some people who are not into reading fiction to do so. But is the trilogy a worthy source of that motivation? It depends on who you talk to.

A downside which is mostly ignored or regarded by some as crying wolf is the negative effect the book might have on some readers. The explicit nature of  some scenes has been greatly criticized because it may lead to some negative outcomes for society, considering, for example, how underage children have easy access to adult books these days. Is this one more addition to adult materials parents don't want their children reading or watching on the television?

We must acknowledge that erotic romance is a booming genre in the society today and the Fifty Shades Trilogy is a testament to that. It has inspired some writers who  previously were  not courageous to write within that genre, to begin to comfortably do so.

I surmise then that the Fifty Shades Trilogy is a catalyst of sorts. Its versatility speaks for itself - as illustrated above.

As a writer, what kind of change do you want your book to bring about in your readers? What kind of effect do you hope your book would have on the readers?

As a reader, what are your motivations for reading a particular book or genre? What kind of feelings did the best books you have read bring out in you?

Happy Reading! Happy Writing!

Ciao!


POETRY READING TIME!

Moonlighting
Broad expanse of starry sky
Naked and beheld by all
Free for all to touch
Dark clouds like waves pass
There in the midst of the patterns
Stood the half-moon
A face full of smiles

Upon a closer look
I see your other part
Concealed to the naked eye
But there all the same
A crescent you remain
Yet shining with dignity
Waiting to fully appear
In all your glory

You are many things
To many people
To me, you are a smiling face
Smiling down at mankind

You smile at kids playing
You smile at lovers reclining
You even smile at proud and vain men
You smile at the renegade
You always smile with understanding
That all is but vanity



---Extract from Endless Seasons (with author permission)

FEW PHOTOS FROM MY BOARDS & PINS

                                                               CJ                                          
                                                                    Abuja, Nigeria
                                                           Mt Maxwell, Salt Spring, BC
                                                 My balcony in MI
                                                      West Coast
                                                    Ocean view from the MI Resort
                                                          Abu Dhabi Airport, UAE
                                                    Gaborone
                                                           My balcony... sunset.. by the Pacific Ocean
                                                  West Coast
                                                     Yup...
                                                            Salt Spring, BC
                                                               Jade River

The Way We do it

Someone recently described the writing career as another rat race.

Pondering on it, I held the thought much longer than I intended to. My circle of writer friends has grown astonomically in the last couple of months. I have been interacting electronically with many of these friends. As I continued in this dragged out reflection about an honorable profession being described as a rat race, I made intermittent mental stops at the different social media postings I have read in recent weeks. I dwelled appreciatively on the many wonderful people putting their talents to great use: to entertain, educate/inform, instruct, engage and so on.  Then I admiringly reflected on the hard work and effort writers everywhere are making to promote and market their books. Some of us are technological novices or newbies but we are brave people and make the leap in spite of the challenges we face in this competitive career. Or should I say rat race? Not sure....

But it isn't primarily about money for many of us; regardless of our struggle to make ends meet.

As an author, I would be glad to make money from my writing. However, that  isn't my primary motivation to write. For me, writing is akin to a pregnant woman. When 'pregnant' with a story idea, there is a compelling force asking to put it on paper. The writing process is a release, an enjoyable one. It is hard work, especially at the revision stage; yet it remains a delightful experience. When the book has been birthed, all I ask for is that someone somewhere reads it and gets positively touched by it.  

Do I hear an entrepreneur author's pu...leeez? I certainly agree that it is realistic to expect your book to sell and sell well; maybe, become a bestseller. That is most writers' dream, including mine. It doesn't mean, however, that I will stop writing if I don't begin to make sufficient money from my writing. I will keep writing because I derive pleasure from writing. I write, so I be. Writing is my passion. It is an integral part of who I am and  I get such great fun out of it!

And that, my friends, is the way we do it! :)






10 Query Letter Tips for Writers



You can find hundreds of pieces of advice on querying an agent, but when push comes to shove there are really 10 main tips that you need to know before testing the waters of the literary agent pool. Here they are.

1. If you write across categories (let's say you write both picture books and adult fantasy), look for an agent who handles everything you write. She might just be your perfect fit.

2. Mass mailing (or e-mailing) agents without considering each one's specialties is a waste of time and postage. Not every agent listed here will be a good fit for you. In fact, the fewer true matches you find, the more you've done your research. Agents love when you query them individually and provide a reason, such as, "Because you represented such-and-such book, I think you'd be a great agent for my work."

3. Make sure your work is edited, revised and polished. Rewriting is a crucial step to bettering your work, so be sure to have trusted peers give you an honest critique, or consider seeking a professional freelance editor to evaluate it. And never query an agent for a novel until the work is complete.

4. Single-space your query letter, and keep it to one page. Double-space your manuscript and synopsis.

5. If you lack a good opening for your query letter, just give the facts. A simple yet effective opening line would be, "I am seeking literary representation for my 75,000-word completed thriller, titled Dead Cat Bounce." In one sentence, you can tell the agent the length, genre, whether it's complete and the title. After that, follow with the pitch and a little biographical information.

6. Follow submission directions to a T. If an agent requests "no attachments," your query will likely be deleted should it arrive with an attachment. If they say "query first," do just that. If they reply to your query and ask for an exclusive read of your manuscript for four weeks, make sure you give them that exclusive look.

7. If you have an automatic spam filter, turn it off. If you're lucky enough to garner a reply from an agent interested in your work, the last thing they want to deal with is a spam filter requiring them to prove their existence.

8. Remember that publishing is a business and there's much to learn. If you've finished a novel, make sure you know how to construct a good synopsis. If you're pitching nonfiction, you'll likely be asked to submit a full proposal detailing the book and how you intend to sell it. If you don't know everything that goes into a book proposal, now's the time to learn.

9. Realize that listings are an excellent start, but there's still work to be done. Research the agent's website to confirm that he is indeed still seeking "electronic queries for romance novels," etc. Also, remember the frustratingly sad reality that the publishing industry is constantly in flux. Agents quit; they switch agencies; they suddenly stop representing fiction and move completely to nonfiction. The best way to deal with this is to cast a wide net.

10. Be persistent. Every famous author has a story about how many agents rejected their work before they made a connection. Work hard, work smart and don't give up.

Source:

- Chuck Sambuchino

Writersdigest.com





DEAR MUSE...




Dear Muse,

You have asked that for the duration of the epistolary novel revision, I discuss with you all issues arising, following similar format. Sounds like a perfect idea to me! So, here….

I saw you laughing hysterically at my inept effort to daily manage all my social media outlets and still find time to keep my appointments with you. I know I have been slacking in the latter – due to no fault of yours. Thanks for the reminder that writers write and procrastinators…. That’s not to say that I haven’t been writing; though, not as much as we’d like and you are willing to go.

After careful thought, I have decided to focus on writing every day and do social media updates every other day. To resist all Facebook, twitter, Goodreads, LI, B, PI, etc temptations, I’ll keep the windows and related tabs closed on both my electronic writer's best friends. 

What’s your take on that? Nice compromise, I would think.

Okay, I can see you’re already nodding your head in agreement.

Could I ask that weekends….

No? No problem. It’s all good. Just remember that if I don’t get to spend quality, fun-filled time unwinding, I won’t be fun to work with. What’s with the nodding now? Cool! We can be flexible at weekends to create a healthy balance.

You’re the best muse ever!

Let's see how it goes :)

FAB
 



P.S.: I took these pics with my phone upisland